The Bridegroom (JESUS) Is Coming as He Promised!
When I was a child, my great-grandparents were a huge part of my life, often coming to our home to visit, and my dad would drive us to their home (often) on Sundays, after church and after a KFC lunch. I loved those Sundays spent at their place because it was paradise for a kid. You see, there was this HUGE three-story barn, and what’s not fun about that?!
I am sure anyone watching us arrive at their home, we probably looked like a car full, bursting at the seams, and when my parents opened their car doors, we (the many kids) fell out and fell in love. My great-grandfather was not a patricianly tall man, so when we ran to hug, I always felt so tall. Faithfully, he always sported a scratchy day-old beard that he enjoyed rubbing across our child-tender face. I know he enjoyed our squeal.
While all this commotion was occurring on the front enclosed porch, my mom would step inside the front door, entering my great-grandmother’s sanctuary. What I most recall about my time shared at their home was the deep contrast between these precious individuals.
- My great-grandfather was outside, while my great-grandmothers remained inside the home.
- My great-grandfather walked down to the overly large barn to attend the sheep, and my great-grandmother walked from the front living room to the kitchen, into her bedroom.
My great-grandfather and great-grandmother did not openly display their relationship with God through their words but through their actions. We felt the love of God each time we drove to their home, and I vividly recall my great-grandmother often sitting in the front room (the living room) with her Bible opened on her lap and retiring to her bedroom, closing the door, and entering her prayer closet.
Oscar Ransom and Laura Ellen Godby will forever be deep inside my being, for the many ways they displayed the love of Jesus to me. I am so proud to carry a part of her name as my name and to have shared that name with my daughter.
Nevertheless, there is one significant truth that must be written here: the faith of my great-grandparents could not be shared with me in such a way that their faith became mine. Their faith in Jesus was theirs, and my faith in Jesus was mine to discover through the Spirit of God. Faith could not be passed down nor owned as a lineage. Our parents’ faith, our grandparents’ faith, and our great-grandparents’ faith cannot replace our own faith. The same is true with those we see in the church. Our pastor’s faith, our Sunday School teacher’s faith, nor our youth minister’s faith cannot replace our faith. My faith is mine, their faith is theirs, and it cannot make us ready for Judgment Day. No one can prepare another person to meet Jesus when He returns on “that day.” How can we know this to be true? The Bible explains it so, recording the very words of Jesus, as He told a parable.
“Then the kingdom of heaven will be comparable to ten virgins,
(The Gospel of Matthew 25: 1-10 NASB)
who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom.
Five of them were foolish, and five were prudent.
For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them,
but the prudent took oil in flasks along with their lamps.
Now while the bridegroom was delaying, they all got drowsy and began to sleep.
But at midnight, there was a shout, ‘Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’
Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps.
The foolish said to the prudent, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’
But the prudent answered, ‘No, there will not be enough for us and you too;
go instead to the dealers and buy some for yourselves.
And while they were going away to make the purchase, the bridegroom came,
and those who were ready, went in with him to the wedding feast;
and the door was shut.”
The five virgins who were ready for the coming of the bridegroom could not allow the five foolish virgins, who were not ready, to borrow that which they had prepared in advance. When the bridegroom, the virgins needed to be ready, and five were, but five were not (ready).
Here’s a frightening truth:
- You and I cannot provide salvation for any other soul. We can only seek the Lord Jesus for ourselves.
- You and I cannot find salvation through our family members, borrowing their faith as we receive their passed-down names. We must seek God for ourselves.
- You and I can pray for those who we know are lost and unready, asking God to help them see the truth about His Amazing Gift of Salvation He Offers to them.
Here’s another frightening truth:
People can attend church, going every Sunday, singing gospel melodies, attending Bible study, and even serving in the church—and still not be ready when Jesus comes.
- Church attendance,
- Church devotion, not
- Church work cannot save our soul.
Only a personal relationship with the Savior can make us ready (prudent and not foolish).
The problem of the world is a sin-problem. They make stand near their God-fearing family members or inside their churches, looking ready, but when “the day” comes WHEN JESUS RETURNS, they will realize the frightening truth.
They may be drowsy or asleep, thinking they are ready to meet Jesus, but when “the day” comes WHEN JESUS RETURNS, they will realize the frightening truth.
They may be hoping they can ‘borrow’ the faith of their grandfathers, pastors, teachers, and other faithful believers, but when “the day” comes WHEN JESUS RETURNS, they will realize the frightening truth.
In closing, may we each BE READY, REALLY HEARING JESUS’ WORDS:
“Later the other virgins also came, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open up for us.’
(The Gospel of Matthew 25: 1-10 NASB)
But he answered, ‘Truly I say to you, I do not know you.’
Be on the alert then, for you do not know the day nor the hour.”